Essay 2023 · Section B · Topic 5
125 marks · 1200 wordsGirls are weighed down by restrictions, boys with demands — two equally harmful disciplines.
How to read this topic
What it means · Plain reading: girls carry the burden of 'don'ts' and boys of expectations to earn, achieve and be tough, and both are harmful. Deeper reading: rigid gender stereotypes confine both sexes; equality means freeing children of both from prescribed roles.
Read it as
- Plain reading: girls carry the burden of 'don'ts' and boys the pressure to earn, achieve and be tough, and both are harmful
- Deeper reading: rigid gender stereotypes confine both sexes; equality means freeing children of both from prescribed roles
- Tension to resolve: are the two disciplines really 'equally' harmful, when girls face denial of rights and violence; argue the shared root and the difference in degree and kind
Open with · Open with a household scene: the daughter told what she must not do, the son told what he must become.
Angles to explore
- Girls: restrictions on mobility, dress, education and marriage, with safety fears turned into curfews; the result is lower schooling, work participation and confidence.
- Boys: pressure to earn, dominate and hide emotion; effects include stress, risk-taking, violence and poor mental health, with men forming a large majority of suicides in India.
- Common root: patriarchy and honour norms that cast girls as to be protected and boys as providers, reinforced by family, media and peers.
- Are they equally harmful? Girls face denial of rights and violence, a greater structural disadvantage; the harms differ in degree and kind, so the word 'equally' deserves scrutiny.
- Institutions: Right to Education, Beti Bachao Beti Padhao and Mission Shakti address girls; boys' socialisation, sex education and mental-health support need equal attention.
- Change: shared parenting, gender-sensitive curricula, role models, men as allies and workplaces that share care.
- Flow: the household scene, girls' burdens, boys' burdens, shared root, whether they are equal, remedies.
Close with · Close with a vision of childhood in which both are given freedom with responsibility: neither a cage nor a pedestal.
Question: UPSC's CS (Main) 2023, Essay — paper ↗. Approach: Minimalist IAS, checked 30 Sept 2026 (how we verify) — UPSC publishes no model answers. ·